Daily Proverbs with Adam Qadmon

Proverbs 15:23 - The Joy of Perfect Timing

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That quiet hum of satisfaction when you've really nailed something—we all know the feeling. But what's actually happening in those powerful moments? When your words land perfectly or you overcome a challenge you thought might break you, something deeper than success is at work.

We dive into the fascinating connection between competence and communication, exploring how "a word spoken in due season" creates ripples far beyond the moment. Through Andrea's story of algebra anxiety transformed into triumph, we unpack how these experiences shape our sense of self and possibility. It's not just about getting things right; it's about the strategic timing and thoughtful delivery that makes our contributions matter.

The most compelling insight might be how this satisfaction creates a positive loop—doing good work and speaking thoughtfully feeds something inside us. When our actions align with our values, we experience a fulfillment that external validation can never match. This alignment represents a deeper form of success than material measures, suggesting that the harmony between our words, actions, and principles creates a satisfaction "worth more than all the riches of the earth."

What moments of perfect timing have shaped your journey? How might you cultivate more alignment between your communication and your deeper purpose? Join us as we explore how competence and thoughtful words create not just personal satisfaction, but ripple effects that might transform the environments we inhabit. Subscribe to continue these conversations that connect ancient wisdom with everyday experiences.Proverbs 15:23

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Genesis 5:2

Speaker 1:

You know that feeling right, that quiet hum of satisfaction when you've really nailed something. Oh yeah, definitely but it's not just about tasks, is it? It's also when your words just land perfectly.

Speaker 2:

Exactly that perfect timing.

Speaker 1:

Yeah. So today we're doing a deep dive into some thoughts from a text Joel19.txt. We want to kind of unpack this link between well, accomplishment and how our words can have a real impact.

Speaker 2:

It's a neat connection Competence and thoughtful communication coming together.

Speaker 1:

The goal is really just to pull out some insights, maybe spark some aha moments for you.

Speaker 2:

Sounds good. Where do we start?

Speaker 1:

Well, there's this quote from Proverbs A man hath joy by the answer of his mouth and a word spoken in due season. How good is it? Seems like two parts there the joy of having the right answer, but also that value of timing, the due season. Does that resonate?

Speaker 2:

with you. Absolutely. Think about work, maybe a meeting Giving that key insight at just the right moment. That answer of the mouth is not just being factually right, it's, you know, contributing something useful.

Speaker 1:

And the timing part is huge.

Speaker 2:

Totally Say the same thing. Too early, too late, it just doesn't hit. The same Might fall flat completely.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, it's like strategic communication, not just being smart. The text then brings up Andrea's story An algebra problem.

Speaker 2:

Ah, yes, I remember that bit, she was really nervous.

Speaker 1:

Totally Convinced she'd vomit, felt everyone watching.

Speaker 2:

You can almost feel that pressure cooker. She's in that feeling of vulnerability.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, and it makes the payoff better, right? Yeah, she actually gets it correct. She feels this amazing surge of pride.

Speaker 2:

It's more than just relief, isn't it? It's like, wow, I did that. A real confidence boost.

Speaker 1:

We've all had moments like that, I think, overcoming something you thought you couldn't do.

Speaker 2:

Definitely. And that surge, that pride, it ties right into what the text says later about doing a job well or saying the right thing.

Speaker 1:

How so.

Speaker 2:

Well, it's just those actions doing good work or speaking thoughtfully. They don't just get results outside, they feed something inside us too A sense of well-being.

Speaker 1:

Like a positive loop. You do good, you feel good.

Speaker 2:

Exactly, and the text mentions how that good feeling, when it comes from doing what's right, it sort of sticks around, it never leaves us.

Speaker 1:

It's about lining up our actions with our values.

Speaker 2:

maybe that seems to create a deeper more lasting satisfaction than just say getting praise Makes sense and it goes beyond just us right. The text mentions setting a good example for other people.

Speaker 1:

Ah, the ripple effect.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, our actions, our words, they influence people around us, sometimes in ways we don't even realize.

Speaker 1:

That's quite a thought that just trying to do the right thing individually can actually contribute to a better environment overall.

Speaker 2:

It is.

Speaker 1:

The text also brings in a spiritual angle the idea that God is proud of righteous actions.

Speaker 2:

And that brings a kind of peace.

Speaker 1:

Right, a peace that's described as being worth more than all the riches of the earth, shifting focus from external stuff to internal value.

Speaker 2:

It reframes what success even means, doesn't it? Not just money or status, but living according to certain principles.

Speaker 1:

And then there's that prayer mentioned.

Speaker 2:

Asking for words to be full of grace and pleasing.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, speaking well or speaking about greatness, with actually doing what's pleasing?

Speaker 2:

It's a desire for consistency. I think, for words and actions to match up.

Speaker 1:

Harmony driven by purpose. So, wrapping it all together, what we're seeing is this deep link between well acting and speaking rightly, the joy we get from doing things well and the sense of fulfillment it brings.

Speaker 2:

It's not just the outcome but the how, the integrity behind it.

Speaker 1:

And the thoughtful.

Speaker 2:

And it speaks to that basic human need I think, the need for competence, knowing we can do things, and connection, which often comes through our words. When those line up, it feels right satisfaction.

Speaker 1:

What did that moment teach you about your own impact, about the power of your contributions and maybe about that ongoing journey of trying to do what feels right.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, definitely something worth reflecting on.